We often carry the weight of past mistakes, convinced that they define us. We cling to guilt and shame, believing we are forever burdened by our past missteps. But what if I told you that many of the “bad” or “foolish” things you’ve done have likely been forgiven and forgotten by those who matter most?
“The past is over. You can’t change it. The only thing you can do is learn from it and move on.” – Henry Ford
While the sting of past actions may linger, it’s crucial to remember that we are not defined by our mistakes. We are works in progress, constantly evolving and learning.
“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” – Nelson Mandela
It’s time to extend the same grace and forgiveness to ourselves that we would offer to a friend. Look in the mirror and acknowledge your past mistakes with honesty and compassion. Say to yourself, “This did happen. It was a moment of poor judgment, a lesson learned. But I have grown from it. I am worthy of my own love and forgiveness.”
Forgiving yourself is not about condoning your past actions, but about recognizing that you are more than your mistakes. It’s about acknowledging your humanity, embracing your imperfections, and choosing to move forward with kindness and self-compassion.
By forgiving yourself, you free yourself from the shackles of guilt and shame, allowing you to embrace the present moment and step into your full potential.
Evans Akpo 