If we want to see a change in our lives we need to see things clearly. In similar vein, if you want things to change now, you need to start by changing yourself. Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world. Do you know people whose lives are unnecessarily chaotic and stressful? What they see influences them. And isn’t their situation largely because they feel chaotic inside? Yes, it is. We like to think that changing our external circumstances will change us. But we have it backwards – we need to change ourselves first before our circumstances will begin to change. And before we change ourselves we need to see our new and better self.